Kangana's school friend reveals the actor's true side in a letter....

Kangana's school friend reveals the actor's true side in a letter....

Kangana's childhood friend remembers her as Kanu, the iron lady from school

Kangana Ranaut, a rank outsider in the film industry has perhaps achieved more than any newcomer in the recent past. But off-late the iron-lady of Bollywood has found herself embroiled in such confounding controversy that seems to be getting murkier by the day.

While Kangana has remained steadfast in her claim about her relationship gone wrong with Hrithik Roshan; he on his part has never even acknowledged Kangana’s presence in his life.

As claims and counter-claims run thick and fast, it was a time that Bollywood’s insider circlers too showed their solidarity. And as expected many big stars came out in support of Hrithik.


Kangana's school friend reveals the actor's true side in a letter....

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Up till now, there has been hardly anybody from the industry who has taken Kangana’s side. Well, until there was a letter written by one-time Kangana’s close school friend came up. The letter gives us a glimpse of what Kangana is like in her real life minus her fanfare and speculations that come along with it.

Written in the recent past by Kangana’s friend and schoolmate Dr Bondina Elangbam who is now an author and a poet, the letter has resurfaced on the Internet given the constant interest in Kangana’s life.

Kanu, the iron lady 

Kangana's school friend reveals the actor's true side in a letter....

Dr Elangbam writes in her letter how Kangana who came to study at Chandigarh, where the two were roommates overcame challenges such as her limited English speaking ability and passed 12th standard with flying colours. Kangana’s school friend paints a very positive picture of her and assures that she has never met anybody as kind as Kangana.

She even talks about an incident post the Queen actor’s stardom where she invited all her roommates to Chandigarh so that she could spend some time with them and they could together re-live the moments from their past.

While this gesture does show Kangana’s tender side as there are hardly any stars who would find time to connect with their past once they have risen to fame.

Kangana's school friend reveals the actor's true side in a letter....

Dr Elangbam who wrote a book titled Between the Poet and her Pencil, some time back that was launched by none other than Kangana admits that even though the two do not stay in touch regularly given their schedules but she says that knowing Kangana from her early days she can be sure that people are pointing fingers at her because of the success that she has attained on her own accord.

Here’s what the letter read:

Recently, there has been quite a bit of talk about Kangana Ranaut’s life. To add, I would also like to take the opportunity of the so called ‘social media’ and share my personal experiences. I have known Kangana Ranaut from a very long time.

We were classmates as well as roommates in Chandigarh during school days. Kanu (as I call her) was a quiet person but very smart and confident girl. Since she came from a Hindi medium school, the first few months was a little difficult for her to adjust at the new school (D.A.V. Model School, Sec15A).

I was also very timid and it was also again a completely different environment for me as I come from Manipur (North-Eastern Region of India). Both Kangana and I struggled in the new school, but it was a lot harder for her since she had to converse everything in English. I never had any issues with the language, except for the food part, which disappeared with the prolonged stay. Kangana was a medical student and I was an arts student.

But she would often ask about my subject and appreciated my work as an artist. Back then, even though we were kids, we were aware of our liking/passion. When we discussed about our future/career she would encourage me to do more sketches and also advised me to take up painting as a profession.

She was interested in modelling but never thought of acting as a career (back then). She would do mimicry during the short break after our daily study time and I remember asking her once whether she would think of acting as a career, she replied, “nahi, acting toh nahi” (no, not acting), then I asked her again, “Suppose you get an offer from Yash Raj?” that time she smiled and told me, “tab mein dekhungi” (then I’ll see), but neither she nor I in our wildest dream had any clue about her present stardom.

I have never seen nor met anyone as hardworking as her. She would study for hours together, overcame her language barrier (English), and passed the 12th finals with distinction. I remember her as a very straightforward and a good human being.

Such a thoughtful person Kangana was, she used to bring home cooked meals for us (I still crave for her father’s biryani) when she comes back from her short stay at home. She is a very caring friend.

After class 12th we all drifted apart but always kept in touch through phone calls and emails (even after she entered Bollywood). We don’t talk often because of the distance and our respective schedules but we never forgot each other.

In April 2015 Kangana invited us (the three roommates) for a reunion at Chandigarh. It was a sweet and short stay but a memorable one. We hung out like good old days with the QUEEN of Bollywood.I don’t follow much of Bollywood but I do hear stories about other actors but just like a soft breeze that blows near my ears.

I read all the articles written about her and also watched the interviews (since she is someone very close to my heart, my friend). That’s when I understood the whole scenario. Her success was the main problem, “some” people couldn’t take it lightly. It is very easy for “some” people who are intimidated with her success to point daggers at her but CANNOT bleed her because she is an iron lady. Whenever Kangana moves ahead in life, it is very unfair to judge anyone based on the perspective of some people’s stories. How much truth is embedded in their stories?

I know her in and out, how kind she is. An actor who still keeps in touch with her old school friends and spares time to meet them, who has not forgotten her roots, CANNOT be a “psychopath”, a “wh*re”, a “witch”. She has guarded herself with her confidence and success and no one can take that away from her.

She is a woman who stands up for herself. KANGANA RANAUT is self made (I have seen her evolved from a school girl to this reigning Queen of Bollywood). I admire her courage and go-for-a-kill attitude. You inspire so many, Kanu keep breaking the barriers.

Written by Dr. Bondina Elangbam.

Please read: 3 things all fiery women should learn from the fiery Kangana Ranaut

Source: Eclectic NorthEast.in

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