Ask your kids these 5 questions at bedtime

Asking questions at bedtime not only further bonds your relationship with your kid, but also gives you an opportunity to know him better.

Ask your kids these 5 questions at bedtime

Using bedtime as an opportunity to spend sometime with your child, will not only make him happy, but also give you a chance to get to know him better. All you have to do is be a good listener and ask insightful questions.

Spending sometime with them with further solidify your relationship with your child. So what are these questions you must ask?

We list five of the most important questions you must ask your children before bedtime.

How was your day?

It is a very important as well as a common conversation starter. With this question, you immediately get your child's attention. It will also help you to understand what's going on with them. Plus, they'd be happy to share their stories with a good listener.

What did you learn today?

This question could help you analyse how your child reflects upon things? As a parent, you would get to know if your kid has learnt something new today. It is also a creative question as they are curious about every thing and love to share.

What made you upset today?

If your kid is behaving differently and avoiding certain things, then bedtime is the right time to ask him. Generally, some kids don’t open up and would bottle up their emotions, their struggles and their feelings when they are upset. Asking them this question would help them relieve their anxiety and their concerns.

Also, dealing with such issues would make them less upset, which would eventually help them in the long run.

What made you happy today?

Sometimes you might hear from you child that playing alone made him happy. You might wonder about the reason, but if your child is happy in that then just assure him that it’s okay to play alone sometimes.

Also, reflecting upon on their happiness and building an attitude of gratitude at such an early age would help them become good individuals tomorrow.

Where do you see yourself tomorrow?

How often as a kid would you have dreamt about becoming someone important? Your kid does the same. This question would certainly lift up his spirit and you would be surprised to hear their answers. But also its a great time to connect and share their aspirations and revel in their happiness.

Do you know of any other questions to ask your child at bedtime?

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