Everyone was shocked when the cutest TV couple Nandish Sandhu and Rashmi Desai decided to end their three-year-old marriage after a messy divorce. Theirs was a love story everyone liked to hear and read about, but in reality things were far from being happy.
Rashmi had even claimed that she had an abusive marriage and that she was living separately for a long time before rumours of their separation surfaced. She also said that Nandish had made everything ugly, despite all her efforts to make the marriage work.
"I've never had the need to ask him if any rumour about him is true, neither do I need to know. But to point fingers at me and claiming you did everything to save it-I'm sorry, my relationship was always abusive! I've not been staying with him for more than 3 years now, and there are so many things I could've revealed about him if I wanted to," she had said at that time.
Even Nandish had lashed out at Rashmi and said, "It's normal to have problems in every relationship and that needn't be blown out of proportion. But calling the marriage 'abusive' is too strong a statement. Does she even understand what it means? Abuse can be physical, verbal, mental or sexual. I want her to specify the nature. I have never raised my hand on her. Even I have gone through mental torture like her. I didn't work for a year due to the stress caused by our relationship."
Whatever be the case, the two finally parted ways and were officially divorced in April this year. And now after five months of their separation looks like Rashmi has found love again!
Continue reading on the next page to see who Rashmi is dating right now!
If reports are to be be believed, Rashmi has found love again in 20-year-old model and TV actor Laksh Lalwani.
Rashmi had recently posted a picture with Laksh on her Instagram account and apparently the "lovey-dovey" picture got every one talking. She also posted a message along with the picture: It's like a golden thread which binds us together. Thanks @iamsolaksh for always being by my side!!! #FriendsLikeFamily.
A photo posted by Rashami Desai (@imrashamidesai) on
Rashmi and Laksh are working together on the show Adhuri Kahaani Humari and the two got closer on the sets of the show, say sources. Interestingly, 30-year-old Rashmi plays Laksh's Bhabhi in the show. However, Rashmi has rubbished the rumours.
"He happens to be one of those few friends who has been there for me during my difficult times. I feel bad for the poor guy. He is being dragged in all this unnecessarily. What if I post a picture with my family or cousins? Will people question that, too? I don't wish to comment on the topic any further. People should just let me be," she told a leading media daily.
Whatever the truth is, we hope that Rashmi is finally at peace now and wish her all the very best for her new life! Moving on in life after a divorce can be quite tough, but you have to understand that there's more to life than just living in the past:
1.Give yourself time: A relationship takes a toll on you and a stressful one can make or break you as a person. So, give yourself enough time to get over it and do not take any decisions in haste. Try and work through your feelings and don't carry the heavy baggage of your previous relationship to your new life.
2. Love yourself: Many people go through self-rejection after a divorce and conclude that perhaps it was their mistake that lead to the break-up. However, that does not mean that you are the one who lead to the divorce. A relationship works both ways and no matter how much effort you put from your side, you should not be the only one responsible to make it work. Remind yourself of how much you love yourself and that your self-respect comes above everything else.
3. Rediscover new interests: Don't let the divorce be the focus of your attention. Reinvent yourself and look for interests or hobbies that you like. Keep yourself engaged and busy all the time so that negative thoughts do not affect you and your state of mind.
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